a reply on Facebook

This one of my Facebook friends posts..... MOMENT OF TRUTH: No matter how versatile, fun, funny, sexy, freaky, smart, beautiful, loving and caring this woman is she still CAN'T seem to understand why is she SINGLE... A guy once told me that when men look at me they DON'T see me as someone to be with on a serious side but as a person that they can use until something NEW comes along...and NO MATTER how HARD I tried to prove that that's NOT my story and SOME day MY KING will come and I will brag SO HARD on him because of my patience for him and the trophy he JUST picked up those word's (which pierced my soul btw) was hurtful and I'm starting to think there TRUE. Either cause the few guys I was interested in shot me down with rejection or I haven't received the consistency that I'm looking for, or maybe my standards TOO high (which can be negotiable if we meeting halfway)...either way these 3 going on 4 years single is really mind boggling, frustrating mentally, physically and emotionally ugh...(Like what am I doing wrong 🤔) but at the end of the day I REFUSE TO SETTLE or BACKTRACK to all the guys who actually DID use me smh...I KNOW and LEARNED MY WORTH and trust me every day is a struggle and THIS SINGLE LIFE SUCKS CRACKER JACKS!!! I just want someone to sweep me off my feet you know and love me how I will LOVE on them BUT NEVER MORE THAN GOD...SO Dear Future Husband IF you are reading this just know I'm having a moment because YOU supposed to be MY BEST FRIEND and MY ALL I wish I could get a hug from you BUT telling you how I'm tired of waiting on you is ENOUGH but WELL worth it... CAN'T wait to BRAG on US because moments like this helps me appreciate you MORE!!! I LOVE YOU and you have a GREAT EVENING MY LOVE .Good Night until we meet and you reveal yourself to me ,Your Future Wife~ MY REPLY Hey girl , I saw this post yesterday but I didn’t have time to check it out . 1 there is nothing wrong with being single and nothing wrong with you, get that out of your mind. 2 you are meeting men that are not ready , that’s it.... bottom line, when the right guy is ready it will fall into place trust me. I was single nearly 8 full years , tried dutifully to find a relationship, dated high and low on the spectrum, I had a dude tell me He couldn’t marry me because he didn’t wanna miss out on someone BETTER ! To my face! Was told I’m too dark , got a kid, too short don’t make enough money not enough education...... all excuses for HIM or them lol to not be with me . 8 years , I had men tell me I take to many pictures of myself, wear too much makeup , have too many friends.... all excuses , I’m too opinionated, wear too much weave ..... There is nothing wrong with you. When the right man is ready, there won’t be a “talking period” your relationship will start day 1. They will be patient and dedicated and you are worthy. Don’t ever lower your standards but think outside the box, I always say your type maybe the reason your single , my dude is not my type lol but he is my soul mate. Look back at my Facebook posts I talked about my type all the time lol and it wasn’t him! But when we met we were ready and it’s almost been 2 years now ..... Your time will come. Just be ready also Girl these people will have us thinking everything is wrong but then we looking at the women that we think aren’t attractive, that have men, like damn ! But it’s really timing and when someone is ready just because we are ready doesn’t mean the man or men we meet are ready. It just is what it is . And there is nothing wrong with staying single til you meet the right one, I eventually embraced my singleness and decided to better me and focus on my happiness and the right one came and will come yes and like children men can be cruel , telling you all the reasons they can’t be with you! Shit be picky too sis ! Since they mad I wear weave and makeup! I’m mad your credit score isn’t over 700 ! Since you think you can’t be with me because I’m too dark ( which I can’t change) shit imma need my man to be slangin if you know what I mean and if you not ! Sucks to be you lol. These men have no qualms about telling us what’s wrong with us and what we need to do, but the truth is they are under the impression they have the power.... they don’t . We do, once you know that and believe it things will change.